Remember in 2008 when New Kids on the Block announced their
reunion tour? It was supposed to be really cool because, hey, it was New Kids
on the Block and they were making a comeback! But then it just turned out to be
super embarrassing because they were all middle aged men with wives and kids
and all their songs still used a synthesizer.
We haven’t posted anything since 2013, and instead of being
young and cool with an interesting story to tell, Pete and I are like, “Hey,
remember us? Those older, fatter, less attractive people that still have that
brain cancer thing going on? Yup, that’s us. We’ll be giving out autographs
after the show.”
For those of you who are just learning about this, here’s a
quick recap: In July 2012, Peter unexpectedly suffered a grand mal seizure. After
a day in the emergency room and several tests, we found out he had a brain
tumor about the size of a golf ball in the left frontal lobe. He underwent
resection surgery 3 weeks later, and the biopsy revealed it was a grade II
oligodendroglioma. (Scripps Spelling Bee contestants be like, “Can I have the
language of origin, please?”) It is a slow-growing tumor, but because it
infiltrates the surrounding brain matter, they will never be able to remove it
entirely. The prognosis is 10-15 years. Peter underwent chemotherapy for one
year, and for the past 4 years the residual tumor has remained stable.
Fast forward to late April this year when Pete went for a follow-up
MRI and doctor visit. If it’s any indication of how comfortable we’d grown with
receiving good news at these visits, we almost considered leaving before
getting the results of the MRI. You see, while Vanderbilt is good at many
things, they aren’t so great about seeing patients in a timely manner. If you
have an appointment in the cancer center, I highly suggest bringing a sack
lunch and low expectations.
Anyway, we decided to wait it out, and it’s a good thing we
did because this wasn’t a typical follow-up. The doctor informed us that there
was new growth at the tumor site that hadn’t been there six months earlier. This
was completely unexpected, as we’d been told it would likely be six or seven
years before any regrowth occurs. What can I say? Peter is advanced.
Peter’s case was presented before the tumor board (because
that’s an actual thing, apparently) to decide on the best course of treatment.
We were told that they might recommend radiation, another course of chemo, or just
to wait a month and order another MRI. None of that happened. They’re
recommending a second surgery. We have to meet with the neurosurgeon on Monday
to discuss whether he thinks he can perform this operation safely and whether
it’s the best treatment option.
So, suffice it to say we’re fairly nervous, a little scared,
and really, really frustrated that all of this is happening again so soon. Another
surgery would mean significant time off work, lengthy recovery, and possibly, God
forbid, me having to chauffeur the world’s most obnoxious backseat driver until
he gets clearance to drive again. We’ll keep all of you updated as soon as we
have news from the neurosurgeon, but in the meantime we would greatly
appreciate your prayers. We know that God is in control, but we could really
use peace and guidance during this time.
Thanks for sticking with us and supporting Peter through the
tumor reunion tour. I’ve suggested that he name his tumor Voldemort so he can
dramatically announce, “He’s back! Voldemort’s back!” Still waiting for a
response on that one…
Dude, to be facing such a scary thing - for the second time ! - your sense of humor is as sharp and witty as ever. I'm keeping y'all in my thoughts (in a non creepy way) and will keep checking for more reunion news on here. Just take it Step By Step.
ReplyDeleteP.S. I went to the 2009 Nashville NKOTB concert. I've never seen so many 30-something soccer moms screaming so fanatically in all my life.
ReplyDeleteJessica and Peter, We will definitely be keeping a positive attitude during this tour. You two are the most determined couple I know. We will be praying for positive answers from the Dr. come Monday. God Bless
ReplyDeleteThanks Aunt Sue! We're still hoping to see you this summer if we can manage the trip up north! :)
DeleteI am a friend of Rachel's from back in Virginia and want to assure you of our prayers as you continue this journey. We prayed for you back in 2012 and we will continue to do so today. I applaud you for your attitude and humor throughout--I laugh out loud reading your posts! Keep it up. God bless you and keep you. May His face shine upon you.
ReplyDeleteYou are too sweet! Thank you for the continued prayers and encouragement!
DeleteLaura and I will be keeping Peter and your whole family in our thoughts daily. - Scott Watson
ReplyDeleteThanks Scott! :)
DeleteYou are in my prayers and forever in my heart.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mrs. Carver! I miss you!
DeleteI know the news isn't at all funny, but you still managed to make me smile as I read the update!Jeff and I are keeping you guys in our prayers. Thanks for keeping us in the loop with the blog posts.
ReplyDeleteGood to hear from you, Whitney! Thanks for thinking of us. I hope you and the family are doing well!
DeleteFrancis family, here we go again...Y'all are at the top of not just mine but many people in the office's prayer list. God is definitely in control, especially in this situation...which is how you two have remained so strong and positive throughout this whole ordeal. I'm sure you have had your moments, thrown a few things around, but all in all you are an inspiration to so many, including myself. Your story, your outlook, and your faith pump life into us all. It is truly a sad story but full of hope, trust, and love. We love you guys and stand beside you. Also, I'm just down the road, so call me if you need a break and Miss Daisy needs a chauffeur.
ReplyDeleteAdam Cook